We were engaged but broke up for a month, then got back together a month before the wedding. Now, 3 months later, we found out that she got pregnant while we were broken up. Now she is 6 months pregnant and he insists on doing everything for her. He tells her she can call whenever and he will got out and get her anything she wants (like ice cream or take out or whatever) and goes to her appt. with her and they don't let me come. She told him she would let him be in the delivery room with her if he wants but says I can't even come to the hospital. I think I should be welcome anywhere my husband is. I don't blame either of them because we were broken up when it happened BUT we are married now and she needs to respect that. For the first 6 months, he won't be able to get visitation in court so she is letting him visit the baby but only at her house and again I can't come. BUT he is still going to be paying child support. He is already paying half of her medical bills and gave her money to buy maternity clothes. What do I do?
After seeing some responses, I would like to ask, would you support my decision to attempt to get an annulment?
Asked by Anonymous at 7:04 PM on Jul. 12, 2011 in Relationships
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