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Do you think you married your father?? Not literally but in some traits/moods that your DH may have. Maybe you see a similarity in the two??

 
Danni143

Asked by Danni143 at 12:25 AM on Jul. 13, 2011 in Relationships

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  • Nope. My husband married my father. LOL
    SpaceToast

    Answer by SpaceToast at 12:50 AM on Jul. 13, 2011

  • Hell no. My father left us when I was three. If you imagine a face for the word goober you have my father. Absolutely NOTHING like my DH.
    SalemWitchChild

    Answer by SalemWitchChild at 12:49 AM on Jul. 13, 2011

  • No, No similarity whatsoever, Thank God! My DH is a kind, caring, loving, human being. He has quite the heart of gold.
    My father on the other hand is, uncaring, selfish, doesn't know how to love anyone but himself (poor, poor Mother), and he's also a terrible Grandfather too.
    KellyGirl_TX

    Answer by KellyGirl_TX at 1:32 AM on Jul. 13, 2011

  • Yes! They both are very calm with me when I am MAD. They both make jokes to me to lighten the mood when I am angry. But my husband is a much better father than my dad was. :)
    The scarey thing is, sometimes I think I am like his MOM! YIKES!!
    eluc

    Answer by eluc at 9:17 AM on Jul. 13, 2011

  • Sometimes the similarities are so close it makes me sick!

    amazinggrace83

    Answer by amazinggrace83 at 1:30 PM on Jul. 13, 2011

  • If you had asked me a few years ago I would have said no way. But looking more closely at my dh and my relationship over the past 20 years with my dh, I realized that just like my father, nothing I do is ever right or ever good enough. So in a way I guess I did.
    Austinsmom35

    Answer by Austinsmom35 at 5:13 PM on Jul. 15, 2011

  • Yes, but my dh also has some of my mother's traits as well. And not their good ones! :(
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:29 AM on Jul. 13, 2011

  • Yes. Both are selfish and have short hot tempers
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 12:30 AM on Jul. 13, 2011

  • Yes, both love Military stuff, have never ending patience, are quiet, and don't express their feelings to anybody.
    Eko

    Answer by Eko at 12:31 AM on Jul. 13, 2011

  • yes it is true that you end up marrying the parent you have the most issues with. my husband is exactly like my step dad who was in my life from age 3 til 18.....drive me nuts
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:31 AM on Jul. 13, 2011

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