Ok, so my stepfather's ex-wife is getting remarried in a month and she has asked me to be one of four bridesmaids and my three year old to be one of two flower girls. She's always been nice to me and I know she doesn't have a lot of other family members she is close enough to to be her bridesmaid. In addition to me would be her daughter as maid of honor, her sister and her cousin and her youngest granddaughter (5) as her other flower girl. Her mother thinks that it's kind of weird and that I'm not really family and Patty shouldn't have asked me.
Patty has always been nice to me and since she only saw her kids every other weekend, she tried to be part of the family. She used to take me places with her kids all the time and even bought me a Six Flags pass a couple of years when she bought her kids one. She did special things with her kids all the time and invited me along sometimes. She doesn't have a lot of other family to be her bridesmaids so I don't see the problem but her mother is pitching a fit. She never thought she should be so nice to me and my sister, but said that my mother was good to her kids so she could be good to hers.
Do you think its weird?
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