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Would you stay or would you go??

if your spouse cheated on you?

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Shaken1976

Asked by Shaken1976 at 11:48 AM on Jul. 13, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (21)
  • GO, no questions.
    MrsLeftlane

    Answer by MrsLeftlane at 11:49 AM on Jul. 13, 2011

  • In MY situation... I would go... both dh and I have cheating history (with ex's, not each other and we were the victims not the cheaters). We both know how much it hurts and we both feel like if the thought ever even occured to us, we would need to address it immediately. I have seen relationships that can survive it... but for ME, US, and MY life... I would definately GO
    mlivlee

    Answer by mlivlee at 11:50 AM on Jul. 13, 2011

  • Depends on why, depends on how, depends on with who. I'm not saying it is ever acceptable, but I think cheating with your sister or something is a little less likely to be worked out than if it was a one-night stand or something. But, I don't really know how I'd feel and really don't ever want to know!!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:50 AM on Jul. 13, 2011

  • in past when married, he did chaet, i stayed, he cheated again
    lesson learned

    if it were to happen again to me
    i would not stay
    fiatpax

    Answer by fiatpax at 11:51 AM on Jul. 13, 2011

  • Go. There's no excuses.
    austinsmama1106

    Answer by austinsmama1106 at 11:51 AM on Jul. 13, 2011

  • Go. I learned my lesson the hard way.
    RigPrincess85

    Answer by RigPrincess85 at 11:52 AM on Jul. 13, 2011

  • Go. Infedelity is against our values and if broken, so is the marriage vow we made to one another. So therefore, the marriage would be broken as well.
    SDMama77

    Answer by SDMama77 at 11:53 AM on Jul. 13, 2011

  • Depends?

    Why would very important to me.

    gammie

    Answer by gammie at 11:55 AM on Jul. 13, 2011

  • I don't think my answer is that black-or-white. I would have to agree with the Anon and say the circumstances would have to dictate my actions.
    hootie826

    Answer by hootie826 at 11:55 AM on Jul. 13, 2011

  • i;d go
    SuperrMommyy

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 11:58 AM on Jul. 13, 2011

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