Ok another question about my adult step daughter, she lives with me and also her 2 yo son, she has a fiance' if thats what you want to call him. She pays nothing to live there and he is there except for sleeping. Almost every night they go out and smoke pot....................I'm sick of it, but she has no where else to go and I can not kick her out on the street I have told them a million times that they are not doing the crap at my house but it goes in one ear and out the other............What do I do and yes I'm ready for the "Who is the MOM?" comments but put yourself in my shoes..
Answer by lilangilyn at 6:29 PM on Jul. 13, 2011
Answer by twinsplus2more at 4:29 PM on Jul. 13, 2011
Answer by hootie826 at 4:40 PM on Jul. 13, 2011
Answer by scout_mom at 4:27 PM on Jul. 13, 2011
Answer by Alradja at 4:28 PM on Jul. 13, 2011
You are obviously not ready to do what truly needs to be done. You are just going to have to learn to deal with the hand you are willing to be dealt. Because the ONLY answer to this dilemma is to play hard ball and make your STEP DAUGHTER wake up and realize that she needs to be responsible for her own place to live, her own child, etc.
Answer by twinsplus2more at 4:33 PM on Jul. 13, 2011
Answer by Candi1024 at 4:26 PM on Jul. 13, 2011
Answer by kimigogo at 4:28 PM on Jul. 13, 2011
Answer by twinsplus2more at 4:31 PM on Jul. 13, 2011
What is your final goal? Do you ever want them to move out, or do you prefer they stay dependent on you? Part of a moms job is to teach kids how to run their own life. I wouldn't kick them out either, but I would make it so that they WANT to move out.
Answer by Candi1024 at 4:42 PM on Jul. 13, 2011