I have been dating this great guy for about 4 years and we both lived in Texas at the time. We decided to move back to where we were from in Arizona after we got married. We live an hour from his family add about 3 hours from my family. We see him family more and since we have a newborn it's good to be around helpful people like his mom and sisters.
Believe it or not they are great. With one exception. His younger brother who is 23 is making comments to me that make me uncomfortable. Before when we would see them every once in a while when they visited he would say things to me about how his brother is so lucky and that I looked cute. I brushed it off. When he became of age to go out with us he would ask me to dance and the secure, trusting man that my husband is, encourage me to dance with him. I just think that he is innapropriate.
Recently he told me that I looked really good for just having a baby and that my boobs looked really big. I just walked away. I feel so awkward now and I don't want to visit anymore.
Should I tell my husband? What if he doesn't believe me? What if this perfect family life we had goes away? I can't avoid his brother all my life.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 8:05 PM on Jul. 13, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by zoomomto3 at 8:08 PM on Jul. 13, 2011
Answer by ImaginationMama at 8:09 PM on Jul. 13, 2011
Answer by mlmkjw at 8:11 PM on Jul. 13, 2011
Answer by AF4life at 8:13 PM on Jul. 13, 2011
O_O tough situation..... I would speak to him first and let him know that he is making you uncomfortable, and if he doesn't change or reacts badly, then speak to your hubby. Or, Talk to hubby and both of you talk to him together. Depends on how easily they get offended or something.
Answer by baquick at 9:37 PM on Jul. 13, 2011
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