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My family is far away and there is no place for me and my daughter with them. my husband is not the kind to cross state lines to come after me for custody, but he will do what he can so I can't have anything when I leave him. He is so vindictive that when he found out I was saving money to leave him he found a way to get it and take it all. Now I have nothing and my job will not pay the bills. I am willing to quit my job and move to where I have to so I can support us, but I have zero dollars to get us started (I had 5 thousand saved that he found and took). I can't sue him for it because of the sneaky way he went about it... how do I leave him if I have no money to my name? he is not physically abusive but he is controlling as all hell and really nasty to me in front of our child and no use to her whatsoever.
the way I set up the separate account I did not exclude him from online access so he had access to online transfers.. I did not do that intentionally, I set up the account from our joint online account so I did not know I had to EXCLUDE him from online access in order for him to legally not have access to the account. I talked to the bank and they said there is nothing I can do because of the way I set up the account in the first place so its my own stupid fault he took my money.
also, I have terrible credit so credit cards and loans are out. pawning sounds great though. I have a ton of pretty expensive items in my home that I could care less if he could live without. but I am sure he would hurt me if he saw me taking them.Answer Question
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