The first 3 years of our marriage my husband didn't work. He worked full time while dating and engagement but took a buyout that he blew within months on unnecessary items (i.e. vaca trips to disney, clothes, new cars for his older sons 20 and 22 at the time), just before the wedding. there is nothing
I struggled to pay for everything I have two sons as well and I asked him to find work. he worked as a temp twice each lasting for a month. Finally this year I hit rock bottom mentally and financially and gave him an ultimatum - either get a job or we divorce. Now he finally is working full time. BUT the problem is that I am so behind on my bills that it is still upsetting me. Before marrying him my credit was perfect now my credit has plummeted horribly.
How do I go about letting go of this anger towards him? I am so ready to divorce him anyway. I suggested counseling, he said no.
Asked by Anonymous at 3:56 PM on Dec. 18, 2008 in Money & Work
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