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I am the type of person that wants to get back,... I dont think I should be this type of person but I am .. if you hurt me.. I will forgive but I will NOT let it go .. i will get even,, and even if i get even I will continue to not care about u like I should. my husband talked to his ex and thinks its okay since he wasnt trying to get with her.. and blah blah blah.. BUT he tried to hide it.. he deleted it from his phone and the ONLY reason I found out was bc it was on the bill.... I cut off contact from my opposite sex friends for 2 reasons... I think it is disrespectful and even if I am not interested in the person I will use them to make myself feel better (in other words.. have them on the side for not innocent reasons.. (not doing anything but knowing I could )..) and these are just friends.. no one I have actually slept with.. my husband however thinks that talking and hanging out with other girls that he has slept with on numerous occassions is totally ok. .. u,mmmmmm should i stop being insecure and not give a F who he talks to or is he totally being disrespectful..

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Ross2010

Asked by Ross2010 at 12:30 AM on Jul. 24, 2011 in Relationships

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  • i dont mind my dh hving female friends, jsut not ones he hs slept with in the past. Thats a massive hell no, and he knows it.!
    kgrine

    Answer by kgrine at 10:44 AM on Jul. 24, 2011

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  • dis respecteable
    sassy21176

    Answer by sassy21176 at 7:49 PM on Jul. 24, 2011

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  • Maybe you should take a look at your relationship, it sounds like you may need relationship counseling there are some big trust issues and you can't have a healthy relationship if there is no trust i spent years in drama and bogus relationships, and guess what that is time in my life that was lost on something that had died a long time ago i hope it works out keep us posted
    MAFIAMAMI

    Answer by MAFIAMAMI at 11:51 PM on Jul. 24, 2011

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