Omg, this is awful...

I'm married and in love with another man.
If feel so horrible.

I don't know whether or not if I should go to counseling or divorce my husband....

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Asked by Anonymous at 1:10 AM on Jul. 29, 2011 in Relationships

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Here we go again! If you felt horrible then you'd do your husband a favor by leaving him.

Answer by Kathy675 at 1:12 AM on Jul. 29, 2011
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If your truly not in love anymore I really don't think counseling would help.. i mean it might would help to find the underlying problem to why you fell out of love with him, but i doubt it'd make you feel any different.. omg.. this is why im so scared to get married.. been engaged about 2 years..AFRAID AFRAID lol.. good luck

Answer by carrientravisj1 at 1:12 AM on Jul. 29, 2011
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@ carrientravisj1 being married is amazing. I adore my husband. He is my best friend and the love of my life. As for the question asked..... I feel bad for your husband. He deserves honesty and respect and if I were him, I would feel 1000 times worse if you stayed and didn't tell me. It's sad that people let things like this happen to their relationships.

Answer by preggers2 at 1:17 AM on Jul. 29, 2011
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If you can and are able to, talk to a therapist about your relationship so you can get someone's unbiased opinion. You can figure out through them what's going on and you don't have to worry about them judging you or getting involved in your life on anything more than a professional level.

Answer by Anonymous at 1:23 AM on Jul. 29, 2011

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yea your right this is awful AND good luck .......

Answer by serenityspeaks at 1:25 AM on Jul. 29, 2011
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Honestly, if you allowed yourself to fall in love with another man you probably don't love your husband. If you were straight up honest with your husband, what would he say? What would he think you guys need to do? Then do that.

Answer by emmyandlisa at 1:38 AM on Jul. 29, 2011
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Move on hun. SAve the heartache. If yur in love with someone else than that means there is nothing to save with your husband.

Answer by STEP_MOTHER730 at 2:02 AM on Jul. 29, 2011
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If you're asking this question in a forum, then yes you definitely need counseling to figure out if you want to work it out w/your husband or divorce him. Perhaps a separation is necessary to figure it out. Instead of ending one relationship to start another, you're already forcing your marriage to end by participating in this affair. That sounds like you want a divorce to me. Your actions speak for you. As you proceed with the divorce, you need to suspend this affair to end it respectfully. Act the way you'd want to be treated if you were your husband and were being divorced from.

Answer by hellokittykat at 2:22 AM on Jul. 29, 2011
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why are you telling us.... tell your husband....

Answer by teeg1 at 3:16 AM on Jul. 29, 2011
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Good Relationships are based in trust and good comunication

Answer by GlitteribonMom at 5:00 AM on Jul. 29, 2011
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