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What do you do when your insecure about your relationship now?


Asked by Anonymous at 10:06 AM on Jul. 31, 2011 in Relationships

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  • Insecurity comes from within. You are not confident, you have a low self esteen, you lack belief in yourself and your abilities. It stems into other aspects of your life, because you're used to second guessing everything. You need to find strength within yourself and you need to stand up with confidence. No relationship, job, or otherwise is going to be completely fulfilling and lasting if you don't first love and appreciate yourself. As corny as that sounds it's the truth.

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 10:45 AM on Jul. 31, 2011

  • Open up the lines of communication now!!! Honesty and communication are the key to a good relationship! If you are insecure than you need to express this NOW to your partner! Explain yourself and don't hold back ... hope things work out for you!! GL
    PS. Will give ya a bump!

    Answer by isismoon3 at 10:29 AM on Jul. 31, 2011

  • Hmm, without any more details it's hard to answer. I think most people feel insecure from time to time but if it is consuming your life than I would talk to your partner. If you still feel insecure and you feel you insecurities are valid (like he or she is cheating or no longer interested in you), I would either get counseling or start looking to leave that person depending on the situation and if You felt the relationship can be saved.


    Answer by lilysmom2607 at 10:11 AM on Jul. 31, 2011

  • COMMUNICATION! That is important key to everything. Whenever you feel something is wrong, or being insecure- it is TIME to talk and express it out! Maybe you are just thinking so much and made yourself insecure which we all do that to ourselves once in a while and it is important to clarify to your partner about how you feel and all that! Good luck :0)

    Answer by breezymommie at 10:42 AM on Jul. 31, 2011

  • if your insecure you need to discuss these issues with your SO...if he's not willing to talk about it with you, you need to leave.

    Answer by xxhazeldovexx at 11:07 AM on Jul. 31, 2011