i had been dating this guy for about 5 months
i got with him like a week after my baby dad and i split
but he just dumped me the other day and told me all i was do was looking for is a baby daddy
and i started to think if i was really looking for a baby daddy
i would probably go of a guy who had money to support me
and not being going to school to get my degree as medical ass.
so i was kinda all like y do most guys think im just looking for a bay daddy
anyone got any input
Answer by Wassybear at 9:44 PM on Dec. 20, 2008
I do not think its a good idea to look for a man so that your child will have a father to take care of them. Its the responsibility of the child's father to care for his own child. If he thinks being a parent is a game he does not want to play, than its up to you to take care of your child. Once you are content with where you want to go with your life and feel you would like to have someone special in your life, than try and meet someone who will be for you, and also accept your child as is....
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Answer by LovinEveryDay at 9:50 PM on Dec. 20, 2008
Well, at the risk of sounding sexist against my own gender, guys are paranoid about that because there are a lot of women who are looking for exactly that! Someone to pick up the pieces of their bad choices in life. Obviously, you are trying to make a better life for yourself and your baby and don't deserve that suspicion, but I'm sure you've known women like that.
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