My inlaws have done more than their share to make me feel unwelcome since my dh and I got together. Before we were married my FIL, MIL and BIL referred to me as an outsider and said I was not a part of their family-and still do. When I was 8 months pregnant, his father called and asked me to move out so his ex wife my MIL could live with my dh (?). They would have family get together's and my dh would invite me and I would reject him, knowing all too well what would happen (his mother has been verbally and physically aggressive towards me in the past). I have a son from a previous relationship whom they treat pretty much just as bad as me and he's only 4. I now have a son with him and he wants me to go around and entertain his family. He's even said 'You don't have to go but I'll take the baby," with no mention of my son. Im not having it. My mom has even said not to trust his family around my child, because his mom has shown very unstable characteristics (she threw something at me when I was 9 months pregnant, had she hit me I'd had a miscarriage). I'm planning on telling him whats going to happen and whats not and he can take it or leave it, but I'm honestly not interested in being involved with my in-laws, jerks is to say the least what they've been to me, my son and even my dh- yet he forces the relationship anyway. I know your kids should have a relationship with both sides but they made it clear in the past they didn't want one now the baby is here and things suddenly change?
Asked by Anonymous at 6:31 AM on Aug. 1, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by krissii at 7:59 PM on Aug. 1, 2011
The physical abuse is unacceptable. If it is done to you what could they do to you children. I am with your mom. Keep your children away from them. If they must be around them, do not leave you children alone with them and make sure you husband knows and does the same.
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