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Are sex and love the same thing?

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Asked by Anonymous at 1:53 PM on Dec. 21, 2008 in Relationships

Answers (9)
  • Of course not. I could have sex with somebody and love them and I can love somebody and not have sex with them:)

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:55 PM on Dec. 21, 2008

  • Love is a feeling and sex is an act.

    Answer by sydsmom2 at 1:55 PM on Dec. 21, 2008

  • Sex is to just do it and love is when you have sex you love that person and that person loves you like when your married and faithful.

    Answer by Butterfly1108 at 1:58 PM on Dec. 21, 2008

  • Noooooo. They're two completely separate entities and acts. You can have one without the other. It's very rare when the two coincide...but when they do, it's beautiful =o]

    Answer by caitxrawks at 2:02 PM on Dec. 21, 2008

  • no, that's the problem most people have in relationships, the sex ends up great, and the relationship itself is a bomb. To be in love you need more than sex, that's only a tip of the iceberg, you need honesty, trust, respect, responsibilities, compatability, etc.

    Answer by xxhazeldovexx at 2:23 PM on Dec. 21, 2008

  • I really hope nobody over the age of 18 think so.

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:40 PM on Dec. 21, 2008

  • NOPE

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:04 PM on Dec. 21, 2008

  • Sex and love are in no way the same thing. I think that women give sex thinking they will be loved in return, but it doesn't happen. I think men know this, so they promise love in order to get women to give them sex, but they are just lying. The only sure way to be loved for who you are and not for what you give is to refrain from having sex until after you are in a marriage covenant. Then you will know that a man loves you for who you are, and he will know that having sex with you is just a bonus.

    Answer by NannyB. at 3:19 PM on Dec. 21, 2008

  • NO. sex is physical without the emotion of respect. Love is respect physically and emotionally and can involve sex. Unless you are love first without fail 24/7 every single second do NOT have sex expecting or thinking you're loved or will be loved.

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:26 PM on Dec. 21, 2008

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