my baby daddy has put me through hell since we have been together, in and out of jail, a coke problem, lying, cheating on me and hitting me. he swears he will change this time if i give him another chance. i know the obvious answer is no, but i also slept with other people, hit him and lied to him about lots of things. i want us to be a family but i know we both need to change, he has suggested couples as well as individual counseling. if he comes out and proves he has changed, should i give him another chance? ONLY AFTER HE PROVES HE IS DIFFERENT. does he get another chance then, or is the past too much to forgive and forget?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 12:27 AM on Dec. 22, 2008 in Relationships
You both need to go your separate ways. Sounds like the relationship is explosive when you both are around each other.
Answer by Southerncharmes at 12:28 AM on Dec. 22, 2008
I don't think so. He has repeated those things over and over and no one deserves that. It's time to move on and think about your child and yourself and just let him go.
Answer by Christine0813 at 12:30 AM on Dec. 22, 2008
Answer by micrespo at 12:30 AM on Dec. 22, 2008
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Answer by Anonymous at 12:41 AM on Dec. 22, 2008
Hopeless at this point especially with all those things listed. I know it's not what you wanted to hear but you did ask but it's your decision. Just really think about it and your BABY.
Answer by Christine0813 at 12:44 AM on Dec. 22, 2008
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Answer by Anonymous at 1:25 AM on Dec. 22, 2008
listen from someone who's in the same situation as you....if YOU think its worth saving and if YOU think the counseling would help and if YOU think hes worth a second chance then..do what YOU feel is the best thing for YOU and your kid...there is NO ONE on here that will have to live with it if it becomes a mistake...so YOU and you alone need to make this decision...BUT if you need someone to talk to who isÂ where you are...im here! my hubby is in too right now...and he's promising me the moon earth and stars...and IM choosing to live my life with him....i dont know who these ladies are tellin you its beyond repair...im not gonna judge you but i will be here to support you...from one MAMA to ANOTHER...one SISTER to ANOTHER...im here if you need to talk.....Peace
Answer by krazi_beautyful at 1:55 AM on Dec. 22, 2008
Answer by TNGirl420 at 2:11 AM on Dec. 22, 2008