Last night me and my on and off again boyfriend were talking. The conversation turned into an argument and I told him that he just wasn't the same person that I fell in love with. Yes, I do bring up the past but the way we were back then makes me smile and I miss it and the way that we are now, makes me cry. He has changed so much and I feel so unloved but keep hoping things will get better. He told me that I am creepy because I always bring up the past about how things were and all that kinda stuff. I know things will never be the same but I want to feel that loved again.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 11:28 AM on Dec. 23, 2008 in Relationships
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Answer by hopelessnance at 12:00 PM on Dec. 23, 2008
You have to ask what has happened in the past, to make feeling's fade! On both your parts, is it forgivable? If you can't forgive him or vise versa, then there's no point in holding onto a relationship where your both just torturing each other! True there's a honeymoon phase, but after that first yr you should still have respect, and feel in love! I think you should take a look at the reasons you 2 have gotten to this place with each other, bringing up the past isn't going to fix thing's, but you have to discuss the reasons for the neglect on both your parts. You are neglecting his feeling's in some way for him to be less loving, men are like that! And he is being this way because of a lack of something from you...if you can't both get back to feeling in love, then it's over! move on and find someone that doesn't take you for granted.
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