My DH family think the best way for punishment is a spanking. ( He doesn't spank tho) I don't think that is true. My child if you tell her once not to do something nad she does it anyways then I put her in time out and she is much better when she comes out. Well they say if she comes to spend the night with them if she doesn't listen they will pop her! I said NO!! No one is going to hit my child you may put her in time out if she doesn't listen but you will not hit her! They then said if they care for her they will ounish her how they feel is right. What do I do!? BC if i find out they hit my little girl it won't be very pretty.! I don't want to keep her away from her grandparents she loves them but I will not allow someone to pop her.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 12:04 PM on Dec. 23, 2008 in Toddlers (1-2)
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Obvious answer here! NO GRANDPARENT'S if they hit her..ask them if they'd rather see her or not! That will fix them pretty quick. I've alrd made it clear to my parent's that I WILL not spank! I'll do time out, take thing's away, but no hitting! You under no circumstances should leave her alone with them, if they will not agree to NOT hit! If it creates a riff in the family SO BE IT! At least your child won't be abused, because in my eye's it's abusive to hit..we don't hit to get a point across, so why should our kid's learn to hit??
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