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Fat kids on pony rides?

I went to a family park and was waiting in line at the pony rides with my dd. The woman in front of me also had happened to be in front of me buying the tickets. When each of us purchased our tickets, the girl behind the counter cheerfully mentioned that they had a weight limit of 100 pounds, and indicated a sign that also said this. I also had my son with me (he is 15 and obviously over the 100 pounds), so I assume this is why she mentioned the weight limit to me. The woman in front of me had her dd with her, and the girl was most definitely over 100 pounds.

When the woman in front of me pushed her dd towards the employee manning the pony ride station, the employee said, very nicely and quietly, "I'm sorry, we have a 100 pound weight limit." and declined to give her dd a ride. The woman instantly started to SCREAM to see the manager and made a huge stink, by the end of which her dd was in tears. ( I have to say there was also a sign hanging on the door into the pony ride area that stated the weight limit).

The manager came over and tried to get the woman to come aside and talk quietly, but the woman kept on yelling and wouldn't budge, so the manager had to talk to her in front of everyone. She told the mom that the weight limit was for the health of the kids working for her, not necessarily for the ponies, and that lifting more than 100 pound kids for even a short time was too much for minimum wage teenagers to handle. The ponies were all bigger than I have seen most pony ride ponies, and the workers DID have to lift the kids pretty high to get them on. The manager went on to say that heavier children also could not balance their weight when riding a pony, so it wasn't safe for them to ride, as they could easily fall off.

After fighting for a while, another manager came over (I'm assuming the REAL boss), and she took a huge pony out of the shed and brought it over. Insisting that the mom walk with them, the manager lifted the girl onto the pony and away they went. After about five seconds, the girl started to slip to the side, unable to balance her weight, just like the other manager had said. Her mother was unable to help her dd stay on and the girl fell off, knocking her mother to the ground and scaring the pony to death. The pony stepped on the manager as she jumped to help the mom and her dd, and all hell broke loose. It was mayhem for a few minutes, and took a bunch of people to help get everything straightened out. When it was over, the little girl's arm was broken and the mom was saying she was going to sue.



Why would a parent put their child in a situation like this where they are obviously not safe? I was so upset about it we had to leave the park.


 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 1:38 PM on Aug. 11, 2011 in General Parenting

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Answers (18)
  • I totally agree that the mom must have been looking for a lawsuit. I felt so bad that she put her little girl in harms way for it. I did call them after and left my name and asked if they knew if the girl was ok. I guess the owners of the place called the woman the next day themselves to see if she was all right and they told me she was doing fine, that her arm was not broken, but her wrist was sprained. I told them if they needed to call me as a witness they could, and they were very nice about it. They actually sent me a free pass in the mail because I had gone home because of the incident. They couldn't have been nicer people, and I was impressed that they went that far to try to make my day better. They really didn't have to.
    P.S. The ponies really were huge, the one they brought out was so tall its back was as high as my shoulders, and the ones they had had out before weren't as tall, but they they looked stocky.
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 11:18 PM on Aug. 12, 2011

  • Some parents ruin it for everything. The only care about what they want and could care less about other people and rules.
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 1:02 PM on Aug. 12, 2011

  • my kid is big.... to put it nicely..... and I just have to understand the somethings he cannot do, and I do not throw a fit about, the lady was rude and the manager should have called the cops and CPS should be notified because the manager said that she would not be able to balance her weight, and she fell and broke her arm!!! I want my son to be in elementary wrestling, but I know that there would be no one his age in his weight class and I didn't want him thown on the mat to wrestle a 6th grader because they are in the same weight class, because I know a 6th grader is more experienced then a 1st grader regardless of the weight. She should have worried more about her daughters saftey, espically when the manager said that bigger kids can not balance their weight as well.
    blue_glass_mama

    Answer by blue_glass_mama at 10:06 PM on Aug. 11, 2011

  • MOM was insensite to the childs embarrassment
    JoLee12345

    Answer by JoLee12345 at 9:51 PM on Aug. 11, 2011

  • It almost seems as if the mother was hoping for something to occur not saying she wanted her daughter to have a broken arm but for something to happen so that she could sue for money. As you said it was obvious it wasn't safe but she insisted and also made a big stink about it as if to have witnesses for court. Hopefully her daughter being hurt will teach her that there are rules for a reason and that she made her daughter suffer for something stupid.
    csizemore4

    Answer by csizemore4 at 6:19 PM on Aug. 11, 2011

  • Poor girl.
    BridgetC140

    Answer by BridgetC140 at 4:36 PM on Aug. 11, 2011

  • Horrible, just horrible. The pony ride people should have called the police when the woman became belligerent. They should not have tried to placate an obviously crazy person. And most ponies are too small to carry someone over a hundred lbs. Now if she does sue them, maybe they will learn a valuable lesson, that rules are rules and they are there to be followed.
    lilangilyn

    Answer by lilangilyn at 3:32 PM on Aug. 11, 2011

  • That's really unbelievable. Also those ponies are living creatures and can feel pain. Most people would understand this and not want to harm them. If one of my children were heavy that would be an activity we wouldn't even attempt.
    Faith4118

    Answer by Faith4118 at 2:43 PM on Aug. 11, 2011

  • I think some people have that in the back of their mind, that if they don't get what they want out of other people that they will downright sue their stinky ass. lol . It is a cruel world and I see things happen so fast it's not even funny. It's pretty sad how some things happen. It shows a lot from how you reacted to it versus her. She probably does that with everything, I feel sorry for her husband and her kids. lol
    onelove1982

    Answer by onelove1982 at 2:35 PM on Aug. 11, 2011

  • LOL Anon not quite what I had hoped for, but still funny!
    kimigogo

    Answer by kimigogo at 1:55 PM on Aug. 11, 2011

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