My husband and I have been together for 10 years we both have children from a previous marriage. Now to tell you about the problem-I dread Christmas every year because his mother only buys Christmas for his daughter and my folks buy for his and mine. We treat them as ours -I make sure I spend equal amounts on all the kids and my folks do to, but his mom doesn't get my kids anything and this hurts-so she is upset with me because I don't want to come to her house for Christmas-but I don't think she is fair to my kids and I refuse to let my husbands child open gifts in front of my kids without them having any-we have talked to his mom but she won't budge but since I want go to his mom's then he won't go (his choice) Am I the one who is being irrational?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 7:37 PM on Dec. 23, 2008 in Relationships
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Answer by Anonymous at 7:44 PM on Dec. 23, 2008
You have been together 10 years and she does that?! I am so sorry but that is horrible. I don't blame you for not taking your kids over there and I wouldn't. Your hubby really needs to talk to her. I have been with my hubby for 12 years and he has a daughter from a previous marriage and my mother treats and loves her like she is her own granddaughter. You are not bring irrational at all!
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