I kicked my XH out at the beginning of December and had one of the Best Christmas's ever! I did feel like a failure because my marriage had failed but decided my Christmas present that year was to realize it wasnt meant to be and not to blame myself for it. Here's to new memories! If you are not wanting to get divorced, I'm sorry you are going through this, but it does get better. Chin up and Make yourself ENJOY this Christmas!
at 1:16 PM on Dec. 24, 2008