My husband of 14 years can't go to sleep at night without having sex. He hid this from me for about the first half of our relationship, but now expects me to "service" him every night. He says I should be willing to do this, since he goes to a job he hates every day to support me and the kids. He used to feel bad about asking for it, but now he seems to think he is entitled! And if I'm not willing, he feels that I don't understand him or care enough about him. What do you guys think I should do with him. Don't suggest divorce; I've already decided that isn't the life I want for my children.
Asked by Anonymous at 11:36 AM on Dec. 24, 2008 in Relationships
Look at being intimate once a night as being beneficial for you too. The good thing is that it's suppose to keep you looking younger much longer, helps calms stress & it definitely keeps you closer to the person your married to then if you were not being intimate. I would also suggest to him that if he would like you to be more involved that you would much rather him not make you feel guilty or bad if for some reason you don't want to participate. He has to understand that anyone forcing you to do ANYTHING by making you do something that you don't want to do by making you feel guilty is only a turn off & will only make him look less desirable. Best Wishes & Happy Holidays!
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