I'll give one example.
This morning I didn't wake up with him. My son had made mess during the night, so hubby wakes me by standing over me and asking if I had seen the mess and what I was going to do about it.
I was groggy, crawled out of bed, started cleaning up the mess. Hubs keeps making snide remarks, so I turn to him and say 'I'm sorry I didn't hear you get up. Please don't wake me up like this, I didn't do anything wrong, and you're being an ass.
He storms out of the living room.
Storms back in and stares me down, points a finger at me and says 'Those cats better be gone today!"
I tell him all the time he's a bully for this kind of stuff. Like he has to have the last say, and be toughest guy in the fight.
It's annoying. But he gets upset if I tell him he's a bully. I used to just shut up when he gets like this, and let him have his say. But now I stand up to him and point out how ridiculous he's being.
Would you call this kind of behavior being a bully? I am worried that one day I will snap, get fed up with it. I try to view it with humor now, but some days his attitude is exhausting.
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