My boyfriend was married for 12 years. 2 years ago, she up and left him for someone else. She is still with that other person, they live together. However, when he goes to pick up his kids and take them out, she wants to go too. And he wanted them to stay the night with him on Christmas Eve. First, she said no. The next day she called and said she changed her mind, that she would let the kids stay the night with him, if she could stay too. Of course he told her no. And she didn't let him have the kids overnight. But why is she wanting to spend the night in his house? Why does she have to come with him when he takes his kids out? It seems to me that she is after him, but she is still with her boyfriend. He has told her many times that he does not want her, that he is not interested, but apparently she isn't getting it. The only reason I haven't said or done anything yet is because I don't want to cause more problems for him.Answer Question
It sounds to me like she might not trust him with the kids. I know my DH isn't very responsible and when he takes the kids to the store I worry until her gets back, although everything is always fine. I don't let him go alone with them much, just for my own peace of mind. Perhaps this is her trouble. Maybe if you did bring it up and ask her if she doesn't trust him with the children and then maybe you could tell her you'd be there to help him with the children! That's where I'd start.
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