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Dont really know how to headline this question...court question I guess?

Do you think having 50/50 joint custody and visitation with your childs father should be changed if the child just started school and the father isn't available to take or pick the child up from school so you must drive to his house each morning and pick the chid up from the grandma and take him to school each morning, and dad lives outside of the school district so no buses, and also refuses to pay anything towards anything school related. Registration, $98 Tuition $140 a month, $150 school clothes and supplies, $10 a week for lunch ect.. do you think that that is grounds to have a hearing to try and modify overnight visitation on school weeknights??

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 7:00 PM on Aug. 24, 2011 in

Answers (17)
  • ABSOLUTELY!!!
    meooma

    Answer by meooma at 7:03 PM on Aug. 24, 2011

  • Definately, He should at least have to hire someone to take and pick her up from school and watch her. I also think you should talk about getting half the school expenses paid.
    tntmom1027

    Answer by tntmom1027 at 7:05 PM on Aug. 24, 2011

  • Absolutely. These agreements really should be modified from time to time, as life changes.
    Brawnwyn

    Answer by Brawnwyn at 7:06 PM on Aug. 24, 2011

  • YES!!!!
    youngmm

    Answer by youngmm at 7:06 PM on Aug. 24, 2011

  • Yes! Change it.
    Pnukey

    Answer by Pnukey at 8:14 PM on Aug. 24, 2011

  • Yes!! Change it asap.
    candyk12

    Answer by candyk12 at 9:25 PM on Aug. 24, 2011

  • thank you everyone! I thought so too but wasn't sure if it was enough...thanks
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 9:57 AM on Aug. 25, 2011

  • Yes, I do.
    ceciliam

    Answer by ceciliam at 3:08 PM on Aug. 25, 2011

  • Yes, def.
    ethans_momma06

    Answer by ethans_momma06 at 5:10 PM on Aug. 25, 2011

  • Yes, if he can't do what needs to be done then he shouldn't be having 50/50 custody/visitation.
    tyfry7496

    Answer by tyfry7496 at 10:33 PM on Aug. 25, 2011

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