My ex has been on my mind ALL WEEK. I feel so guilty...it is making me snap at my SO. He and I never had a sexual relationship, but we were very emotionally involved (which to me means more). He left for the Army almost 3 years ago, and we decided to not try a long distance relationship. I now have my daughter, and I do love my SO very much...but my ex is coming home on leave in a few months...in the past, I have gone to lunch with him, but I just feel like since I have a daughter now that doing something like that is inappropriate. I would never cheat, but I just feel so darn guilty thinking about him! I miss him a ton...he was my best friend for a long time. I really want to see him, but I know that it will cause trouble with me and my SO.
Should I talk to my SO about it, and let him know that I will be seeing him for lunch? Or should I talk to my ex about it, and tell him that we can't talk anymore...
Answer by Bmat at 5:28 PM on Dec. 28, 2008
Answer by CarolynBarnett at 5:23 PM on Dec. 28, 2008
ask yourself if your SO had lunch with a ex or had feelings how would it make you feel.....I hope you make the right choice .....
Answer by Anonymous at 5:25 PM on Dec. 28, 2008
Answer by amethystrse at 5:26 PM on Dec. 28, 2008
Answer by averillholistix at 5:36 PM on Dec. 28, 2008
Answer by Anonymous at 6:01 PM on Dec. 28, 2008