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when I got pregnant on Christmas 2006 with my son there was this girl in Minnesota that was supposedly 5 months pregnant by the same guy. She came down and stayed at his house for 2 weeks. Left and called sayin she was pregnant. I found many letters saying it was a girl that they were naming Pearl. But never ever found an ultrasound pic or anything like that. A month or 2 after I got pregnant she called and claimed to have a miscarriage. Which I told him was BS cuz she was like 6 months pregnant. She should have given birth am i rite? Claiming that her vagina was too small to have a baby or some dumb BS like that. Well me and him broke up a few months back in Feb. and now hes back with her! I am so heated rite now. That this dummy would be stupid enuf to get back with him after she knows he has a family and all the drama she caused. And if she really was pregnant why would she get back with him after wat he did to her?


Asked by IxLuVxMyxBaybee at 4:40 PM on Dec. 29, 2008 in Relationships

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  • They both sound desperate. Sometimes it's hard for people to deal with a break-up so I kinda get where he would run back to her. As far as the woman goes... she probably wants to feel like she finally won him.

    Answer by Ashes0813 at 4:53 PM on Dec. 29, 2008

  • I'm sorry, but why does it matter she's with him? Do you want him back? I'm confused.

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:48 PM on Dec. 29, 2008

  • No it just pisses me off

    Answer by IxLuVxMyxBaybee at 4:50 PM on Dec. 29, 2008

  • I mean it would be nice if he was gonna have a new girlfriend to find a good one thats not gonna be psycho and pretend shes pregnant and have one that my son could look up to

    Answer by IxLuVxMyxBaybee at 4:50 PM on Dec. 29, 2008

  • I think u need to let son make his own judements about who she is. I know it is so easy to think we know another person-but u only know what u saw in this lady for a small amount of time. U can misscarry all thru pregnancy, I lost a baby at 7 months and they took her c-section. anyways I am sorry u are mad but u cannot control it so for your son, mke the best of it.U trusted his father enough to create him w/him so trust now that his dad would not put someone in his life that is harmful.

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:55 PM on Dec. 29, 2008

  • its so annoying i mean hes almost 30 im turning 24 this is like his 10th girlfriend since we broke up ive had the same boyfriend for 5 months that ive known for almost 10 years. I think he should put all this having fun with girls that are only a lil more than half his age and get to thinkin about who would be a good role model for his son. Instead of teaching his son to go out wit a different girl every week.

    Answer by IxLuVxMyxBaybee at 4:57 PM on Dec. 29, 2008

  • i know i've had 3 miscarriages but how is she gonna write to him saying she just had an ultrasound and that its a girl with no proof and then 2 months later at almost 7 months pregnant just simply say she had a miscarriage becuz her vagina is too small lmao get real!

    Answer by IxLuVxMyxBaybee at 4:59 PM on Dec. 29, 2008

  • well my son is almost 15 months old and i dont find it healthy and prolly a lil more than confusing to him to see his dad with a different girl all the time

    Answer by IxLuVxMyxBaybee at 5:02 PM on Dec. 29, 2008

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