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What is going on?!

So, we're broken up for some time but he's still jealous if i go out with other guys. He broke up with me and am i just reading too much in his jealousy? Help!

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Asked by GrowingMommy at 10:20 PM on Dec. 29, 2008 in Relationships

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  • He's jealous because he can't let go. If you want him back, ask him to step up or out. If you don't want him back, let him know (nicely) that it's time to let go. Some guys want it both ways (who can blame them).

    Answer by WD40 at 10:25 PM on Dec. 29, 2008

  • Men can be very primitive sometimes. A lot of men think you still belong to them in some way. Which I am not surprised when men sleep with their Ex/Babymamas. Or he could just be the possessive/jealous type. OR, he may really still have feelings for you. You should ask him what's up with him, or tell his to move on. You don't want him interfering in your new relationships. That could be bad.

    Answer by hopelessnance at 10:26 PM on Dec. 29, 2008

  • This makes me think of the dog in the manger- the dog is sitting in the manger but doesn't want the hay, and it barks when the sheep come to the manger to eat. The ex doesn't want the relationship, but he doesn't want you to have a relationship with someone else. You deserve someone who values you and does what is good for you.

    Answer by Bmat at 10:27 PM on Dec. 29, 2008

  • honey if he broke up with you and ya'll are defiantly not together anymore then just tell him to back off your dates are none of his business being a mom can be stressful enough so do yourself a favor and just shake it off you don't have to worry about his immaturity too

    Answer by tasha080808 at 10:30 PM on Dec. 29, 2008

  • he broke up with you. he needs to deal with it and move on. He made the decision. He needs to control his jealousy

    Answer by admckenzie at 12:09 AM on Dec. 30, 2008

  • Thanks!

    Answer by GrowingMommy at 4:53 PM on Dec. 31, 2008

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