My husband wants to see me with other men, and then sleep with me afterward. I wanted to marry a man who found me attractive ALONE, not with other people. Don't get me wrong, I'm very "adventurous" when it's just him and I, so I'm not a prude or boring. But it's never enough. He ALWAYS asks me "who've you been f-ing?" and begs me to tell him things I've "done" (even though I haven't). There have been times he's intentionally gotten me very drunk and had men come home with us without asking me first. I'm very upset by this because I only want to be with him. Is it wierd I'm loyal when I have chance to not be? This is not what I wanted for myself. I've tried talking to him about it, and he'll keep it to himself a while, but it always rears it's ugly head and sometimes seems like we can't have a sex life without it being part of it. It's making me feel terrible.
Any advice? Please don't judge...
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