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My daughters dad and I are not together. She is 4 and he just became active in her life these last 2 mths. Hes taken her maybe 4 times at the most. Me and him just recently had a little spat. Nothing big or about her. He just didnt like an "attitude" I supposebly had. Now hes argueing about our past relationship we had, which we were only together for 2 mths. Hes wanting to take her for awhile, for the school year. And I will be real heart broken and sad about it, because its always been me and her. I'm just wondering if maybe its his time to have with her, or if maybe she should stay with me and just let him keep visiting????? He does live on the reservation. And i've been told that he could get full custody of her there. thats what worryies me.Answer Question
i think if she always lived with you and there no reasons for your to give up custody then no as i don't feel its good for a child attachment and self of worth . i understand he wants more time with her but children need to know where there home is and where they live maybe you could do more weekends with her bad
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Answer by Saya at 7:42 PM on Sep. 4, 2011
I'm wondering why he all of a sudden has such an interest in her????? She MUST stay in your custody and he can come to visit. He is a stranger and it would be very foolish to just let her go with him. Something seems fishy about this - beware.
Answer by banana-bear at 12:19 AM on Sep. 5, 2011
I retract my concern. Which is true? Has he only seen her for 4 times and y'all were only together for 2 months? Or have y'all been off and on for years, enough to have another child together?
Answer by banana-bear at 12:24 AM on Sep. 5, 2011
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