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When you don't want to have sex wih your hubbie

do you not shower or skip shaving? What is the best turns offf?

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 8:54 PM on Dec. 30, 2008 in Relationships

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Answers (11)
  • I rub myself with a garlic clove. LOL. It not only keeps vampires away, it works for hubby too.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:19 PM on Dec. 31, 2008

  • I always want to . Even when I'm exhausted ...
    It's so important in our relationship.
    Meshell7

    Answer by Meshell7 at 8:56 PM on Dec. 30, 2008

  • i just tell him i'm not in the mood, it works for us
    just be honest, he'll be pouty and disappointed, but if he really loves you, he'll understand
    bi-polarmommy

    Answer by bi-polarmommy at 8:56 PM on Dec. 30, 2008

  • uh that wouldn't matter to him even if I did!! Nothing turns the man off
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:57 PM on Dec. 30, 2008

  • ummmm i just say no
    jodi205

    Answer by jodi205 at 8:57 PM on Dec. 30, 2008

  • Nothing works for me if he wants it then he wants it and thats it!!!
    scaredmommy08

    Answer by scaredmommy08 at 8:58 PM on Dec. 30, 2008

  • I don't have that prob right now but when I was younger I did. I would say the best way is to pick a fight but it's gonna cause probs. i think u might be better off addressing the reasons why u don't want to?Be honest w/him, if for nothing else so u can connect in other ways... jmo.
    Bearsjen

    Answer by Bearsjen at 8:58 PM on Dec. 30, 2008

  • I make a compomise with him, like last night he wanted to and I told him that is we skip it for the night, then we can do it everyday till he leaves for India (HE's a marine and he's going there for a month). BUT if we did have sex last night I told him we couldn't do it on his last nightbefore he leaves! so he backed off and can't wait for tonight and the next and the next! it's a win win situation!

    Adja70

    Answer by Adja70 at 8:59 PM on Dec. 30, 2008

  • Telling him that I have my period usually works for me.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:47 PM on Dec. 30, 2008

  • fall asleep. thats what i do
    snoober_k

    Answer by snoober_k at 9:58 PM on Dec. 30, 2008

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