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When you don't want to have sex wih your hubbie

do you not shower or skip shaving? What is the best turns offf?


Asked by Anonymous at 8:54 PM on Dec. 30, 2008 in Relationships

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Answers (11)
  • I rub myself with a garlic clove. LOL. It not only keeps vampires away, it works for hubby too.

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:19 PM on Dec. 31, 2008

  • I always want to . Even when I'm exhausted ...
    It's so important in our relationship.

    Answer by Meshell7 at 8:56 PM on Dec. 30, 2008

  • i just tell him i'm not in the mood, it works for us
    just be honest, he'll be pouty and disappointed, but if he really loves you, he'll understand

    Answer by bi-polarmommy at 8:56 PM on Dec. 30, 2008

  • uh that wouldn't matter to him even if I did!! Nothing turns the man off

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:57 PM on Dec. 30, 2008

  • ummmm i just say no

    Answer by jodi205 at 8:57 PM on Dec. 30, 2008

  • Nothing works for me if he wants it then he wants it and thats it!!!

    Answer by scaredmommy08 at 8:58 PM on Dec. 30, 2008

  • I don't have that prob right now but when I was younger I did. I would say the best way is to pick a fight but it's gonna cause probs. i think u might be better off addressing the reasons why u don't want to?Be honest w/him, if for nothing else so u can connect in other ways... jmo.

    Answer by Bearsjen at 8:58 PM on Dec. 30, 2008

  • I make a compomise with him, like last night he wanted to and I told him that is we skip it for the night, then we can do it everyday till he leaves for India (HE's a marine and he's going there for a month). BUT if we did have sex last night I told him we couldn't do it on his last nightbefore he leaves! so he backed off and can't wait for tonight and the next and the next! it's a win win situation!


    Answer by Adja70 at 8:59 PM on Dec. 30, 2008

  • Telling him that I have my period usually works for me.

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:47 PM on Dec. 30, 2008

  • fall asleep. thats what i do

    Answer by snoober_k at 9:58 PM on Dec. 30, 2008

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