My sisters ex BF just called me said that he is going to ask her to marry him on New Yrs Eve.The thing is he said he is only doing it cause it is what she wants and doesn't really mean that they are going to get married.She just wanted some type of commitment out of him she has been with him for 5 yrs and they have a child together.She has 2 other kids from a previous relationship,father is deceased.The kids have told me they do not like him and are scared of him because he is always fighting with their mom.BF told me when I questioned him on how he treats the kids that they are not his kids & there will always be a differnce between his own and hers.The other thing is that he has cheated on her several times.They are currently broken up because she caught him another girl the week before x mas.Should I tell her what he said and what his plans are or not?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 1:10 AM on Dec. 31, 2008 in Relationships
Answer by Mikayla_lynn at 1:13 AM on Dec. 31, 2008
Yes, if it was my sister I would tell her. If she just caught him cheating I would be surprised if she said yes anyways.
Answer by Southerncharmes at 1:13 AM on Dec. 31, 2008
Answer by MiSs.SmOkEy at 1:14 AM on Dec. 31, 2008
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Answer by gdiamante at 1:38 AM on Dec. 31, 2008
Absolutely~She is your sister & it's better to come from you then anyone else. When you tell your sister, I would make sure that it comes from the heart & let her know that you are only telling her because you love her & feel the need to protect her from making a terrible choice by committingto this man. If he has already cheated on her then getting married would only make it more difficult. If he doesn't want to be a father to her other children then that should be a wake up call right there. I hope you can say something that will make her think rationally. Best Wishes & Good luck!
Answer by onespecialmom at 1:46 AM on Dec. 31, 2008
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