my hubby is cheating again. i have proof that he can just explain away but im not pursuing revealing his secrets because he makes me seem like a neurotic woman. advice please.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 7:01 AM on Dec. 31, 2008 in Relationships
Answer by Ann7227 at 7:09 AM on Dec. 31, 2008
Answer by Kat122 at 7:50 AM on Dec. 31, 2008
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Answer by admckenzie at 8:51 AM on Dec. 31, 2008
Then you need to make a choice--leave or live with his behavior. Remember his behaviors can be deadly to you, as in STDs. Sometimes you just have to get out with the little that is there and tough it out to see the rainbow. I'm so sorry this is happening, but it sounds like you forgave and gave him another chance and he has shown his true colors. It is not about you being crazy, it is about you making a stand for what you need and value in a partner. He can be a good dad, but horrible husband. I hope the new year brings you strength and hope for your self.
Answer by Teachermom01 at 9:24 AM on Dec. 31, 2008
Answer by stefirose22 at 11:07 AM on Dec. 31, 2008
What I would do:
Play it cool. Not say anything to him. BUT... cut him off from sex (I don't want anything penicillin won't cure). I'd hire an attorney, have him served with divorce papers along with COPIES of your "proof" AT HIS JOB. I'd change the locks and set all his belongings out on the lawn the same day he's served.
Answer by Laura1229 at 2:10 PM on Dec. 31, 2008