Ok first off my lil one is 2 months old and she is so clingy to me which is ok with me but everyone keeps saying that im spoiling her! If I put her in her swing and she can see me she is fine but if she cant see me she starts freakin out! If my mother tries to hold her and she cant see me she'll start screaming .. it was that way with my husband to she wouldnt let him hold her either but its gotten better! Is that normal? Do all babies go thru this? My mom wont watch her for even a minute which doesnt bother me, but I know it bothers her because she wants to be able to keep her for me if I need her to?
2nd question when she is sleeping she will start crying? Like screaming crying? Then stop.. then a couple minutes later she'll do it again until she wakes her self up and then I have to pick her up or she'll continue to cry? Is that normal?
Asked by Anonymous at 12:01 AM on Jan. 1, 2009 in Babies (0-12 months)
Answer by jodi205 at 12:04 AM on Jan. 1, 2009
Answer by letlovegrow at 12:15 AM on Jan. 1, 2009
Answer by KaceesMom at 12:19 AM on Jan. 1, 2009
You are not spoiling her. Look up object permanence this should explain her behavior. Remember she can not comprehend that you are there but out of sight. She thinks you are gone forever hence the crying for her life. It is very important to build that trust so don't let anyone convince you otherwise, go to baby and love baby period!!
Answer by Anonymous at 2:22 AM on Jan. 1, 2009
Answer by jc4duckie at 6:38 AM on Jan. 1, 2009
Answer by CrystalMayrand at 12:14 PM on Jan. 1, 2009
Answer by Mgirly84 at 3:42 PM on Jan. 1, 2009
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