my husband and i have been together for four years, and well his baby mama and i have never really gotten along. But recently she has been starting more and more drama over the dumbest thing possible!!! (clothes,schedules, ME) Its just getting harder and harder to handle, because he never says anything to her!! He just lets her treat him like crap and I get sick of seeing and hearing it! I want to keep the peace with her...and yet I dont know how to any more.Answer Question
Answer by momavanessa at 9:38 PM on Jan. 1, 2009
Answer by maemaesmom at 9:43 PM on Jan. 1, 2009
Answer by mudgirl at 12:30 AM on Jan. 2, 2009
So don't listen. You have control over your kingdom. Your house and domain. If you do not want to hear it then don't engage in it. Ask/tell your spouse that you just want peace. If he has a problem with the chic then he needs to work it out with her....he is talking to the wrong woman. If she has a problem with you then she needs to direct it back to her ex. That simple. Don't be around when she picks up her child, get caller I.D. and don't answer the phone for her to talk or yell at you. So what if she has problems about clothes, you, or the world? You don't have to care about her petty concerns. Go about your business and the man deal with the consequences of his actions. This is the woman he chose to have a relationship with, have sex with, and had a child by. Let him do all the responsibility bearing. You take care of what does belong to you. Her bitching and moaning is not yours to own.
Answer by frogdawg at 12:40 AM on Jan. 2, 2009
He is trying to keep the peace. You want to be with him suck it up. She is the mother of his child and she is not going anywhere and he does not want to do anything that might jeopardizing seeing his child. The child is more important than you frankly. Don't let her see she gets to you. Let him deal with her completely and stay out of it. If he rants about her tell him he can fix it by talking to her or standing up to her and let him know you don't want to hear about it if he won't. This is his problem and you will only push him away if you stick your nose where it does not belong.
Answer by Anonymous at 1:50 AM on Jan. 2, 2009
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Answer by Anonymous at 9:42 AM on Jan. 2, 2010