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HE WON'T LEAVE ME ALONE - HE'S OBSESSED WITH ME & IT'S BEEN A WEEK!

I just "met" this guy a week ago, and he won't friggin give me a break! I told him I have a man that I L O V E ! And he still insists that he "really likes me" .. For Heaven's sake, I have never even MET him, only on FB, and he's friends with a couple of my friends.

He texts me 24-7, and if I don't answer right away, he thinks I'm ignoring him (okay, sue me, sometimes I am, but my GOSH!) He says I need to leave my BF and give him a chance, he'll treat me right and take care of me and my kids.

He says some weird stuff like he wants to kiss me up and down my body and in between my thighs....WHAT THE HELL!!!!!!! I DONT KNOW YOU!!!!! He calls me "baby" and "baby girl" I am so ANNOYED with him.

Changing my number isn't an option at this moment, and a few days ago he said he gave up and he's going to give me my space, so he deleted me from his facebook (: ... but a day after that, he's back to texting me again. This guy is TWENTY NINE YEARS OLD!!!!!!! with a daughter himself!

I told him I only wanted to be his friend, but he told me "he can't just be my friend" .... WHAT THE FREAK IS GOING ON?

 
knicole0708

Asked by knicole0708 at 1:42 PM on Sep. 20, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (12)
  • I had a creepy stalker like that - and I was married at the time!! My ex travelled for work and this guy would wait until he left and then start calling me. You said "if I don't answer right away" - stop answering at all!! Tell him to stop calling. And the call the police - I saved my phone messages from him and let the police listen to them, there wasn't enough for criminal charges bu they went and had a talk with him.
    missanc

    Answer by missanc at 1:47 PM on Sep. 20, 2011

  • You've got a creepy stalker. Can you call your phone company and have them block his number? T-Mobile did this once for us when my ex-husband wouldn't leave my daughter alone.
    Brawnwyn

    Answer by Brawnwyn at 1:43 PM on Sep. 20, 2011

  • Either block his number or actually ignore ALL of his texts, messages, etc. He'll get the hint after a while.
    Dr.Donna

    Answer by Dr.Donna at 1:45 PM on Sep. 20, 2011

  • stop being his friend... you can't be friends with someone who is in LOVE with you
    maxsmom11807

    Answer by maxsmom11807 at 1:45 PM on Sep. 20, 2011

  • block his # on your phone
    Tell him you'll file a restraining order if you need to
    Remove him and block him on FB
    monshine2

    Answer by monshine2 at 1:47 PM on Sep. 20, 2011

  • I think u was leading him on then when he got serious u backed off if u gave him ur number an u met him on fb u are wanting attention but u should be geting that from ya man
    mummy2b777

    Answer by mummy2b777 at 1:48 PM on Sep. 20, 2011

  • Actually from the jump I told him I could only be his friend, I don't need nor want attention from any man besides my own. I wasn't leading no one on, because I told him that I don't want to be with him or even try to. How can I want to be with someone I DON'T EVEN KNOW? Exactly what I told him! How can he get serious when I haven't even met him? I don't get it.....

    I thought I could be nice and at least text him back, but I guess not. I have now turned my phone off so I don't even have to read the messages. This is getting out of hand, I thought I could be friends with a dad, that's going through things similar with my situation, his daughter lives with him. But when he said "he can't just be my friend" that sent off a trigger.....how can you not, when you don't even know me as any other way!!!!!!!!!!
    knicole0708

    Comment by knicole0708 (original poster) at 1:52 PM on Sep. 20, 2011

  • sounds like u wanted the attention but now u dont
    carter2

    Answer by carter2 at 1:52 PM on Sep. 20, 2011

  • why does he have your number?
    MsSelfDestruct

    Answer by MsSelfDestruct at 1:53 PM on Sep. 20, 2011

  • Well there isnt much I can actuallt say, because I have a guy that i have been knowing for the past 8 years thats I used to date . And I cant get him to stop texting me when I am with my soon to be husband!
    Tlady25

    Answer by Tlady25 at 1:53 PM on Sep. 20, 2011