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Spice things up???

im 26 weeks pregnant and feel very unacttractive.... but i want to try and spice things up with my boyfriend in the bedroom as much as i can being as though i feel like a house lol..... any ideas??? anything i can do?? ladies i need ur help <3 ha


Asked by Anonymous at 11:31 PM on Jan. 1, 2009 in Relationships

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  • I know how you feel about the no outfits!! I am the same way. Go get your hair done, cut and a style, or just a style. go get a new thing of makeup like eye shadow, or just glam yourself up other wise. I know on days that i do my make up and do my hair to where i think i look awesome, i feel so much better. even a pair of earrings make me feel a little better. I hope that helps! But I totally understand the whole outfit thing. i'm not one for them. i dont understand them. *thats just me though. i'm not judging. *

    Good Luck!!

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:05 AM on Jan. 2, 2009

  • try some lingerie, the teddie kind. just try to ignore any belly you have. at 26 wks i had barely anything, some women are already big. exude confidence!

    Answer by soldiermom1986 at 11:33 PM on Jan. 1, 2009

  • I hear ya hon, at 21 weeks I find myself hiding under blankets lol. here's the thing-dh prolly thinks you are glowing.I have found that a nitie w'an empire waist(that comes beneath your breastsand drops from there) flatters my shape. i mean u cannot hide u are preg but wearing something pretty will turn him on and make u feel sexy.

    Answer by Bearsjen at 11:37 PM on Jan. 1, 2009

  • If you feel good about yourself it is very sexy. This would be a great time to treat yourself to a pretty and feminine nightgown. Some nice bath powder. Some extra hugs and ... ooo! What about massaging him with scented oils. :)

    Answer by Bmat at 11:38 PM on Jan. 1, 2009

  • any advice without outfits???

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:40 PM on Jan. 1, 2009

  • take a shower together. have dessert in bed while watching a romantic movie. give mutual back rubs. use candles and music to set the mood. and forget about outfits, naked is sexy too!

    Answer by laadeedah at 11:49 PM on Jan. 1, 2009

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