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amount of time you have gone without sex? I gave birth to my son just 4 months ago and I know a decrease in sex drive is normal- but we just never have the opportunity, energy or drive! It's driving me crazy. I don't even have time to please myself and if I DO get the chance I would just rather sleep.

I know all of this is normal. And things will get better. But it has been over 3 weeks and just the seam of my jeans is driving me nuts at my desk!!

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Asked by meandrphoto at 3:38 PM on Sep. 23, 2011 in Relationships

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  • 5 months
    3 months at the end of my pregnancy,and 2 afterwards

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 3:40 PM on Sep. 23, 2011

  • Six months, and only because he was deployed. He's currently deployed now, has only been gone 2 out of 6 months, and I'm going NUTS!

    Answer by hopeandglory53 at 3:40 PM on Sep. 23, 2011

  • my husband and I went an ENTIRE year,, I was very high risk when pregnant, and no sex allowed, then we had to wait for 3 months after kiddo was born due to complications from my C-section,,,

    Answer by kimigogo at 3:41 PM on Sep. 23, 2011

  • sad9 months


    Answer by gwen20 at 3:41 PM on Sep. 23, 2011

  • the first 14 years of my life, so along time lol.

    Answer by SherrieMomof2 at 3:43 PM on Sep. 23, 2011

  • Maybe 8 weeks max.

    Answer by voni681 at 3:51 PM on Sep. 23, 2011

  • Haha, Sherrie, if we're doing that, then it would be 19 years for me :P

    Answer by hopeandglory53 at 3:54 PM on Sep. 23, 2011

  • Before I had kids and got married, 11 months and 2 weeks. After I had kids and got married and such, two and a half months while hubby was out of town.

    Answer by QueenMomma2023 at 3:59 PM on Sep. 23, 2011

  • you poor girl me and my man never go with out sex that would kill me.

    Answer by wyotechangel at 7:52 PM on Sep. 23, 2011

  • about 7 months. I have a 7 week old baby and through the pregnancy it hurt to do anything for some reason so we only did it a few times while I was pregnant then you have to wait so long after having a baby so it was 7 months maybe 8. I always find time and energy for sex lol lol. Normally we don't go more than 3 days unless it is my time of the month and even then I am pleasuring my dh in other ways lol lol

    Answer by mommy5409 at 8:40 PM on Sep. 23, 2011

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