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how come ever sense my lil girl was born me and my husband have been fighting?

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Asked by Anonymous at 7:59 PM on Jul. 15, 2008 in Relationships

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  • Baby's cause stress, from lack of sleep to disruption of the regular routine, to new un thought of expense's. You have to keep talking about it and figure out what exactly is causing the arguments and why they are started.

    Answer by vbruno at 8:18 PM on Jul. 15, 2008

  • You have changed your whole family dynamic. It takes time to get things on schedule and the roles and responsiblity sharing worked out (although it is never perfect). Give it time. Sleep deprevation makes for a short fuse too. Give each other the benefit of the doubt and try to work together. It is hard, this I know. Good luck! Time will help.

    Answer by Teachermom01 at 8:42 PM on Jul. 15, 2008

  • Maybe you need someone to watch your baby for a couple hours so you to can get caught up on some tlaking and sleeping. Sometimes a good nap is much better than a fancy resturaunt. Good luck with everything and try to find the source of the fights. It might be that he is feeling insecure because now he has to share you with someone. As silly as that sounds he is a man and they aren't always logical about things. Good luck and get some rest...

    Answer by wondermommy5 at 8:50 PM on Jul. 15, 2008

  • it might not be him but you. not to be meen but most wemen cant stand thier S.O. after having a baby. but its not thier falt its the hormons they are triing to go back to normal and also it could be a sign of post pardem that can acualy last up to a year after a baby is born. if you find that you a always edgy and on end it could very well be u and you need to explain to him that it is a real medical condition and apoligize in advance for some thing and ask him to bare with you. even ask ur doc. about it he might be able to help

    Answer by lovelyme1006 at 4:03 PM on Jul. 16, 2008

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