IGNORE IT! Our 21 month old whines, she gets ignored until she uses her words like a big girl. I think that is why she doesn't whine very much, because she has realized it gets her no where. But if they whine and you give in they go hey that gets mommy to give me what I want and well continue to do it! If my dd starts whining I say we dont whine, use your words like a big girl and then ignore her until she stops. Good luck, whining makes me crazy too!!
at 9:12 PM on Jan. 2, 2009