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6-Year-Old Suspended for Knife Gets to Go Back to School

October 14, 2009 at 6:55 AM by Cafe Cynthia - Comments (3)

Swiss Army KnifeIt's stories like this that make me wish I could home-school.

By now you've heard about the first-grader who was suspended for 45 days for bringing a fork to school.

It all turned out okay. The public school educators reconsidered and will allow the kid to come back to school next week. But this whole mess could have so been avoided if school officials just used some of those critical thinking skills they feel are so important to teach our kids.

It was a Swiss Army Knife for goodness sakes. I'm all for zero tolerance policies in the proper context -- a kid who knowingly violates the policy, who intends to threaten or do harm. Yes, anything to prevent another Columbine. None of those cases apply here.

This sweet little boy was excited to join the Cub Scouts and wanted to bring in his Swiss Army gadget to eat his lunch with. That's it. His mom should have been more on top of things, but oh well.

Sure, the knife could have hurt someone. So could the scissors that the little kids use to cut out art, or the rocks in the science room, or the legs of a chair. Anything can be used as a weapon if you want it to be. My 6 year old's cranium is the fiercest weapon I know. Thank goodness his head-butting phase was short-lived.

Moms were talking about the outrageousness of the suspended Cub Scout all over CafeMom. Some feel punishment is still necessary to send a message, but say a month and a half in reform school is just ludicrous. Talk about potential harm -- just imagine what type of emotional and mental damage that will do to this otherwise good, well-behaved child.

 

In your view, is a week's suspension from school adequate punishment for a young child who unknowingly brought a banned object to school?

 

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FILED UNDER: behavior, discipline, safety

Comments:

Lokis...

IMHO, since he was so excited about having his little swiss army gadget, the worst thing they could have done is take that away from him.  45 days suspension is just stupid for a 6 year old.  Give him a few days and he'll forget why he's suspended in the first place.

LokisMama Oct. 14, 2009 at 6:58 AM

Tired...

THIS IS STUPID!! I agree with LokisMama, take the knife away and give a stern warning that he cannot bring it to school. Suspension for a 6 year old should only be for SERIOUS things! Not for things that he didn't know better....He is 6!

TiredMommy6906 Oct. 15, 2009 at 12:03 AM

cluel...

Okay 45 days is harsh.  I think a week would be sufficient and perhaps that the tool away for a week as well.

Now the facts as I know them having been a Den Leader for 4 plus years.  A 6 year old boy in scouts is in first grade.  He is a Tiger Scout.  Knives are not introduced to them until they are Webelos.  There is much talk about safety before they handle a knife.  This is only October.  Scouts starts in September with the new school year.  There is Nooooooo way they would be discussing knives.  As far as it being a "cool camping tool" as he was quoted.  This group most likely has not gone camping at this early time either.  So why and who bought this for him.

cluelessme Oct. 15, 2009 at 7:36 PM

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