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Orgasm: How Often Do You Have the Big O?
May 30, 2009 at 8:00 AM by Cafe MicheleZ - Comments (31)
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There are some women who have an orgasm every time they have sex, and there are others who need more than just penetration to climax. Both are normal.
Of course, there is every other scenario in between. Some love toys, others foreplay, and well, there is every kind of kink out there, so you know what turns you on. Right? If not, I hope I can help you find out in these articles.
I've been covering sex in Healthy Living for a couple of weeks now and it's one of my favorite subjects -- one I've written about for many years. So send me a PM if there is a certain topic you want covered. Together we can shed light on the subject here (keeping you anonymous) and through these conversations maybe we can all have more orgasms!
Poll
Question: How often do you have an orgasm? (Either by yourself or with a partner.)
Total Votes: 189
FILED UNDER: sex life
Comments:
every single time.
Never have. :(
Ladies...men masturbate...and so should you. Teach yourself what makes you feel good and lead him in that direction. You need to know what makes you feel good before someone else can do that for you.
almost everytime we have sex I get an O
Personally I am very rigid when it comes to sex and so I have to 1 choose my mate, 2 be completely confortable environment/wise and 3 not had an O for some time prior. I don't feel the need to have them all the time and find multiple ones less exciting than the one before. I know I am not alone when I say I also feel they take a lot out of me. Like they wear me out. I can also feel my body "healing" after having an orgasm or orgasms. I guess in the heat and excitement of the moment we don't realize what our body is doing but later I know by the way I feel. I am satisfied that I have had lots and know exactly what triggers me. I know about me.
You need an option for "Never have."
Just about every single time.. and we do it at least 1,2 times every other day. I can't wait until that mans sex drive is down. But even when I don't have one, I am still satisfied :D.
I've never not had an orgasm. Either through penetration or clitoral stimulation. The less we have sex or masturbate the less I want one. Same goes for the more we do it. I think women need to speak to their SO about this. If you don't tell him what will make you happy then you can't blame him for not knowing.
Ladies...men masturbate...and so should you. Teach yourself what makes you feel good and lead him in that direction. You need to know what makes you feel good before someone else can do that for you.
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how about almost every time hubs and i have sex?? we don't schedule our sex life so i can't vote. i'm pregnant so some days or weeks are better than others for getting "busy".
MaMaLaLa369 May. 30, 2009 at 9:50 AM