November 18, 2008 at 12:31 PM by Cafe Melisa - Comments (6)

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Is your hospital bag packed yet? I was in denial about packing mine -- like, if I didn't pack the bag, I wouldn't have to go to the hospital and give birth (!). You know how that one turned out.
But what should you pack? Baby hat and adorable going-home outfit, yes, but what else will you be really happy to have? It's definitely a topic of great discussion around here. I asked moms-to-be in Pregnancy and moms who'd already given birth in Answers what they thought the hospital bag essentials were -- and TroubleNStereo posted an awesome list in Due January 2009.
Top 10 Most Overlooked Hospital Essentials:
10. Your own pillow -- you'll appreciate having something comfy and familiar once the birth is over and you have time to rest.
9. A change of clothes and a toothbrush for your husband -- in fact, you might consider packing a small, extra bag for his stuff.
8. A DVD player -- you may need to pass some time either before delivering or after (especially if you wind up with a C-section and have to remain in the hospital for a few days.)
7. A prepaid phone card, in case your hospital won't allow cell phones.
6. A small blow-up mattress for your partner -- it'll beat trying to get some sleep in the hospital chairs.
5. Plenty of snacks for you and your partner -- hospital food is yucky and it'll beat the vending machine.
4. The phone list of who to call.
3. Hair brush and ties to pull your hair back.
2. Your journal or baby book to begin recording memories, since Mommy Brain begins to set in almost immediately after delivery.
1. Not-so-nice undies. Boxes full. Because after wearing one pair for about an hour, you will never want to see them again.
Anything else surprising that you think would be a help to delivering moms at the hospital?
FILED UNDER: 3rd trimester, labor & delivery
Some wise person told me to make sure to pack maternity clothes to come home in - I don't think I necessarily would have made that decision without the advice. You still look pregnant when you leave the hospital, so don't bring your pre-pregnancy clothes thinking you'll magically fit into them.
Other advice I got was to bring an empty bag to take supplies home in. I definitely left the hospital with more stuff than I went in with and was happy for the extra bag to carry it all.
the pillow and snacks are good ones. the snacks especially for labor. if you are hungry it probably means you have low blood sugar or something else that your body is telling you it needs you to eat for, trust your body. the hospitals normally don't want you to eat because they are afraid of having to clean up a mess, but that is their job! they will not bring you food, but if you have it they can not legally take it from you, if they try to tell you it's against policy or whatever call bs, it doesn't matter if it is, because legally they can not require you to follow a certain type of treatment, they can only suggest and let you decide. I was very happy I have been warned about this ahead of time and knew to take our own snacks for labor (and there was no mess)
I brought some of my husband's cotton shorts to come home in because someone warned me I wouldn't feel like dressing even in jeans and t shirt, and they were definitely right. I would have probably walked outta there in my nightgown if I had the courage to do so!
Definitely bring food. Even if hospital meals were edible, they aren't big enough. And your honey won't feel like running out for fast food every few hours.
Bring slippers or slipper socks with non skid bottoms...hospital floors are quite slick and you'll need help keeping your footing especially if you're nursing an episiotomy or tear.
Bring your favorite shower products and some make up. It will make you feel good to be a little girly in the midst of all that's going on around you.
I had a book tell me that you should bring a small cooler full of sandwiches and stuff for you honey to eat while he is waiting. It also said to bring a bottle of champagine to celebrate the new arrival... i'm not so sure that I'd do that, but that would be a neat thing. I also remember that a deck of cards is a good thing to bring with you. I don't know about you but a good game of war, or even poker can lighten the mood, even when you're in labor.
I REMEMBER TAKING A PACK OF CARDS TO PLAY AND BOOK TO PASS THE TIME. I BROUGHT THE BABY SOME CLOTHES TO WEAR FOR THE 1ST TIME.
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I overpacked a LOT. I figured we'd be bored while I was laboring, so we brought lots of activities, but then never wanted to do any of them. I brought clothes that fit me when I was seven months pregnant, and then I was so swollen that they were extremely tight.
Though the hospital gives you pads, you might want to bring your own. The giant ones they had hardly fit in my underwear, which made my pants that much tighter, lol!
One thing that made getting to the hospital a lot easier (especially for my husband!): I packed the things I didn't need on a daily basis weeks ahead of time, then put a list on top of all the things that would need to be added last minute. Though it was fun watching my husband, in his underwear, franctically run around gathering things, it would have been a lot less funny if I'd had to think!
KatieCrandall Nov. 18, 2008 at 2:25 PM