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When to Start Trying Again After a Miscarriage

November 18, 2008 at 6:50 AM by Cafe Melisa - Comments (3)

An anonymous mom asked other moms in the Answer section how long they waited to start trying to conceive again after a miscarriage. It's a tough question, and an emotional one. Here's what a few moms had to say.

In this question and a similar one in Pregnancy After Miscarriage, moms said that the waiting period really varied -- some women were eager to begin trying to conceive again right away, and did, and others said they waited a few months. All moms agreed it was a highly personal decision, and each woman was different.

When to try can depend on how far along you were in your pregnancy -- and even when your body is ready physically (make sure to get the go-ahead from your doctor), there's the emotional factor to consider, too.

Many moms who shared their thoughts also shared the news that after their loss, they were either pregnant now or had gone on to deliver happy, healthy babies.

To share your experience and get support from other moms who've been there, connect with Pregnancy After Miscarriage, Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss Support, or Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage.

What was your experience? If you've miscarried, how long did you wait before trying to get pregnant again?

FILED UNDER: miscarriage & loss, trying to conceive

Comments:

gloss...
I found out in my first sonogram that our baby wasn't well (i rather not go into detail) and our doctor advised us to have an abortion since I was still very early in the pregnancy. after a second opinion whith the same result I was sent for the procedure. it was emotionally very painful to me (i was awoke throughout it all) I was crushed for months didn't even wanna think about another pregnancy.. what if it happens again?! a little over a year later we decided to try it again and bam I got pregnant the very first month!!! now I am almost 15 weeks along so far so good. though I have to admit I will feel much better after our baby is born healthy and they tell me everything is ok.

glossyblack Nov. 29, 2008 at 12:16 PM

Ahma-...

My first son was born April 07 and I was preggo again August 07. It was not planned and I did not know. I went to the doctor because I was having horrible pains in my stomach. I found out I was preggo and had to have surgery because the baby was eptopic. The surgery was October 07 and I became pregnant for the 3rd time May 08. I am due Feb. 09'. The 2nd or 3rd pregnancy was not planned so I think it all depends on the person. Emotionally, the 2nd child was the hardest only because it did not make it although I became pregnant the following year, unplanned.

Ahma-Lily Jan. 1, 2009 at 1:53 PM

after...
I think three till six month is better time to get pregnant after miscarriage....

Nonmember comment from after miscarria May. 6, 2009 at 6:58 AM

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