May 15, 2009 at 7:53 AM by Cafe Cynthia - Comments (35)
It's time for a Mom Confession -- because, let's face it, we're real mothers and sometimes it doesn't work the way the parenting books say it should.
This Week's Confession:
I sometimes nap while my son is awake. -- anonymous
Occassionally, my son wakes up before I do. He knows how to work the TV and recorder, and he'll go down and watch a movie. -- anonymous
I'm about to conk out, but my daughter is still awake. I hate sleeping when she's up no matter how safe I make my house, but I'm so tired I can't help it! -- anonymous
How do you cope with sleepiness when your toddler is bursting with energy? Do you make them lay down for rest time -- plop them in front of a movie -- put up the child gate and let them play in their room while you catch some ZZZs? Or do you go running for the coffee?
We all have secrets and opinions -- so thanks to these brave moms for sharing their honest thoughts, and thank you for keeping this conversation non-judgemental!
Past Confessions:
I Let My Toddler Play Outside Alone
I Turn My Kids Over to A Mom I Just Met
My Toddler Wears Crude T-Shirts
I Let My Toddlers Climb Play Equipment Unassisted
My Kids Go to Sleep After Midnight
I Let My Toddlers Go Naked in Public
I Paid $22 for My Son's Haircut
My Toddlers Eat Pizza for Breakfast
I Leave My Toddler Alone in the Bath
Our Children Aren't Invited to Our Wedding
I'm on Vacation, But My Kid Is Still Going to Day Care
I Let My Toddler Eat Food Before Paying for It
I Find Excuses to Send My Kids to Bed Early
FILED UNDER: confessions
When I need a nap and my son doesn't, I take a body rest in the living room while he watches something. I don't sleep, but I do get some rest and still can keep an eye on him. Then I hit the coffee to keep me going until bedtime.
When my kids were toddlers I really had no choice. I was so freaking tired all the time and there were 3 of them. Most mornings I slept until my (then) youngest got up. Meanwhile my 2yo and 3yo kids would get themselves up and turn the TV on. They would usually be up for an hour before I got up. They never did anything except watch TV.
Now they are all in school (8, 7 and 6). They get up hours before I do on weekends and get their own breakfast and get breakfast for their 3yo sister. During school days it's just me and the 3yo and I have no problem telling her I'm going to take a nap and to play quietly or watch TV. Then I go in my room and shut the door. If she needs me she knows where I am and she knows not to get into stuff. I usually sleep for an hour and when I get up she's still happily watching TV. Half the time she wakes me once or twice to ask if she can have snacks or announce she has to use the bathroom (one of her quirks). She is very mature for her age, thoughl.
I never nap when my two year old is awake because he would wreak havoc and doesn't sit in front of a movie, but I will leave my four year old to watch tv while me and the two year old go and nap. This is only when I am in need of sleep. Any other time.. it is coffee for me.
Some mornings I choose not to get up at the crack of dawn when he does he plays in his room while I get another hour of sleep.
If its early in the morning & she is ready to get up & i cant pull myself out of bed.. We will lay in my bed & she will watch TV...
If i ever get really sick im sure we will do this as well... But I wouldnt allow my kid to roam the house alone (well, right now she is only 2.5 anyway so... lol)
I will sleep in with the boys closed in my room with me. I give them breakfast, turn the cartoons on and rest for awhile. Sometimes I will take a nap when my 1.5 year old does and my 3 year old watches a movie.
mine are 4 and 6, it used to be that they would just wake up so friggin early, but they would stay in their room and turn on a movie (that was how I knew they were awake) then the 6 year old would send the 4 year old in to tell me they were hungry when the movie was over. That is when I'd wake up... my 6 year old is very mature, my 4 year old is not at all mature, but she does what her big sis says.
With this pregnancy there are times when i do need a nap in the afternoon, i am soo tired, usually they are in school at this time so it's no issue but if they are home I am comfortable with dozing on the sofa while they watch cartoons... though they are more prone to fight in the afternoon... this summer should be interesting
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Sometimes I just need 20 or 30 mins. We are the only ones in the house and I gate us in the living room. But never longer than that.
luchousdiva May. 15, 2009 at 8:45 AM