I always knew i was adopted. My aparents were very open with me on that always. I found out that i have two brothers and two sisters from my bmom that were also adopted out. One of my siblings just turned 18 years old. He has no ideal that he was adopted. His aparents were not that open with him. From what i can tell he had a really good childhood. I really want to meet him. I think he has that right to know the truth as well. I'm kinda scared because I'm not sure how he will take the news. I fell i little bad all so. Because maybe in his eyes his life is perfect, and my news will turn his world upside down. But i still think he desevers the truth and he can decided what he wants to do with it. What do you think? What would you do if u were in my shoes? Thank you in advance. I know it was kinda long thanks for reading!!!!!!!!!
Asked by Anonymous at 5:30 PM on Mar. 6, 2009 in Adoption
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Answer by Anonymous at 10:05 AM on Mar. 7, 2009
I also agree that he has a right to know his truth. Don't be surprised if you end up being called the bad guy. Just know that you aren't. Shame on his parents for lying to him. The secrets and lies in adoption are unnecessary and harmful.
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