Has your husband ever cheated on you?

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I want to know if you had kids when he did. How many kids did you have at the time? And their ages I think i'm seeing a pattern of when men have their affairs.



I have seen mostly when there are 2 children under the age of 5, when they had their affairs. And usually around the 6-7 yr of being married. Maybe the 7 yr ich does apply. So copy and paste this with your answer.



How many yrs married?



How many kids when he had his affair?



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Asked by Anonymous at 3:47 PM on Aug. 11, 2008 in Relationships

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  • 3 years into relationship, 1st baby about 20 months and 2nd baby a few months old.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:51 PM on Aug. 11, 2008

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  • LOl funny It was on our 7th year amrried and we had 2 kids ages 2 & 5
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:52 PM on Aug. 11, 2008

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  • I'm not married to my children's father and probably never will. But he's cheated on me, regardless of what he says. He denies everything til this day, but the fact is, I know better. I got pregnant with my son in 2005. When I was 3 months pregnant, there was this girl claiming to be pregnant by him too and due around the same time (this is a girl he previously was talking to behind my back, so I knew of her). Well after a month or so of lying, her mother made her take a pregnancy test, since my children's father, wasn't MAN ENOUGH to get her to pee on a stick. He just believed what she said. Well, test came out negative. (this girl, well she already had a child who was 4 at the time and she was 20, or something around that, by a guy from high school).
    Kaismommie

    Answer by Kaismommie at 3:53 PM on Aug. 11, 2008

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  • Well, mid-summer when I was about 6-7 months, drama started with this check again. He would be with her and say, she just happened to be at the same place as him. YEAH RIGHT!!! The chick came to his place in the middle of the night, at 3am, knocking on his window. Causing BS drama. Well, finally. I WALKED AWAY. Well, my son was born and he was there. He returned home and I went and stayed at my dads. I called his cell phone and apparently his new cell he had, which he said he bought, well SHE bought it for him. Hmmmm....Anyways, she was drama and continued to be drama after my son was born for months. Well, baby #2 came and here comes a different set of girls. After I went through the shit with my son, I didn't allow him to overcome me this time and I focused on me and my daughter in my womb. He's a liar and he does what he wants. I live my life and pretty much just share two children with him.
    Sorry it's so long and drawn out!!!
    Kaismommie

    Answer by Kaismommie at 3:54 PM on Aug. 11, 2008

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  • Yes my hubby has lied and been unfaithful. After 7 years of marriage, 4 children, aged 10, 9, 5, and 10 months.
    I have a question 4 u. Why do you ask?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:56 PM on Aug. 11, 2008

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  • I'm so sorry! No, I haven't been cheated on (that I know of) but I do know he let some slut give him a lap dance..my friend to be exact and he tried to get her in the bedroom but she didn't want to because she is my "friend" So, I guess she can tease him but not do more. This was told to me by an on looker (my best friend) and he confessed to it...men suck. Oh, and I had 1 kid at the time age about 6 months and we wherent married. I wonder if he'll cheat on me because i'm sure he's capable of doing it. We've been married for about 9 months and now have 2 kids, ages 1 and 3.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:57 PM on Aug. 11, 2008

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  • Yes he's cheated on me. However I decided that since we were not married and it was good enough for him I could do it too. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:02 PM on Aug. 11, 2008

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  • I had 3 husbands. All three cheated. (what a blow to my ego! I tried the susie homemaker thing and the whore in the bedroom thing but they still cheated. I must be really bad in bed I guess. ) Anyway, my first marriage he started cheating on me 3 months after we got married. I was 16 and a virgin. I didn't know what I was doing so he found someone who did and he sent me home to mom! No kids. Second marriage, about 7 yrs in, 3 kids (1, 3, 6). Third marriage...he cheated all the time from the start but it was a marriage of convenience not a "real" marriage. No kids.
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 4:02 PM on Aug. 11, 2008

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  • I've been married to my husband for 20yrs we have 4 kids ages 18,16,13,12, I'm not quite sure when he started to cheat but I'm sure it was while I was pregnant with our first child, I know it has not stopped either and its never with the same woman, it does not really bother me anymore because my main concern is my kids if their father decides to stup that low in order to feed some sexual need he feels he's not getting at home then that is his choice not mine. I made my choices along time ago, I chose to love him and bare is children and be the best wife/ mother I knew how to be but I guess in all my efforts it was not good enough to keep him faithful to me, some men just arent the marrying kind.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:04 PM on Aug. 11, 2008

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  • We had been married a month....and had a 2 week old baby.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:21 PM on Aug. 11, 2008

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