Is it ever OK to cheat?

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Asked by Anonymous at 7:59 PM on Sep. 23, 2008 in Relationships

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Not in my book. If the marriage is loveless, it's probably best to get a divorce and then worry about a new relationship.

Answer by mamapaparazzi at 8:01 PM on Sep. 23, 2008
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A loveless marraige is a miserable life. I've been there. Everyone deserves love. If you don't feel like your marraige is fixable then you owe it to yourself and your spouse to do something about it.
Do you know if he feels the same way?

Answer by Anonymous at 8:22 PM on Sep. 23, 2008

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no,just get divorce and then do your thing girl
but don't do what you wouldn't want other person to you
if you don't love him get divorce.

Answer by SJazmine06 at 8:02 PM on Sep. 23, 2008
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No. If you do not love the man you are with, why are you there? I assume since you are on CafeMom you have at least one child. For the sake of your baby, LEAVE. You child will know that you are not happy, regardless if you think you are hiding it or not.

Answer by CarolynBarnett at 8:02 PM on Sep. 23, 2008
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I don't think so. Leave first.

Answer by KennsWifey at 8:03 PM on Sep. 23, 2008
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Not unless you are in an open marriage.
Good luck to you.

Answer by jellyphish at 8:04 PM on Sep. 23, 2008
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No. Get out. Get it together. Then, go find someone to love who will love you back.

Answer by manna1qd at 8:08 PM on Sep. 23, 2008
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If you have kids, for their sake, you better not! Do not be a bad influence on kids! That is a bad influence. Divorce your husband. Make everything FINAL before you bed another man. Maybe you should have thought about it before you married him?

Answer by Anonymous at 8:19 PM on Sep. 23, 2008

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NOOOOOOOOOO!

Answer by feesharose at 8:20 PM on Sep. 23, 2008
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its never ok to cheat. if you arent in love anymore you need to leave the marriage. there is never any excuse that makes cheating right by any means

Answer by chevygirl2007l at 8:22 PM on Sep. 23, 2008
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