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Is it ever OK to cheat?


Asked by Anonymous at 7:59 PM on Sep. 23, 2008 in Relationships

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  • noooooooooo, unless you have an arrangement!!!!

    Answer by juju0707 at 10:34 AM on Aug. 24, 2010

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  • I believe it's not ok. If you're in a loveless marriage, it's best to just get an divorce.

    Answer by devinebeauty at 8:00 AM on Jul. 20, 2010

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  • you are too never cheat on each other. the marriage bed is for huband and wife and never for another person!

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:44 PM on Jan. 26, 2010

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  • I was cheating, but now I am in an open marriage situation - only my husband isn't interested in anyone else, even with permission.
    In my case, there is just something lacking in my marriage (my husband's sex drive is just a small part of the list).
    Is cheating ever okay? I think it depends on each individual situation!

    Answer by yellowrose11026 at 12:53 AM on Dec. 3, 2009

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  • No, it is never okay to cheat anytime no matter what. If you are in a loveless marriage, get a divorce.

    Answer by heathermichelle at 2:36 AM on Oct. 9, 2009

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  • it is not ever okay to cheat.

    Answer by RoseWall at 9:00 PM on May. 30, 2009

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  • Absolutely not. What reason is there for it? Even in an apathetic marriage, there's always hope of bringing back that spark. And that's the one person you're supposed to be sleeping with, period.

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:48 PM on Apr. 17, 2009

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    Answer by mamakirs at 3:09 PM on Sep. 24, 2008

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  • NOOOOO and NOOOOO again. if emotionally its over then just end it all together, why hurt the other person by betraying their trust. and any guy who knowingly hooks up with a cheater is either going to cheat themselves, or be paranoid all the time expecting you to cheat on them

    Answer by Pudge_Pie20 at 3:08 AM on Sep. 24, 2008

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  • Either fix your marriage or divorce. Don't bring another person (even if it's just sex) into an already shitty situation. Why add more drama and pain? And why would you want that example set for your children?

    Answer by diandradawn at 2:51 AM on Sep. 24, 2008

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