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Is it ever OK to cheat?

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Asked by Anonymous at 7:59 PM on Sep. 23, 2008 in Relationships

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  • i've been there but NEVER is it ok to cheat. it may suck yes, but your parraige was done with vows in mind. Though love is the bases of a marraige, cheating is not a way to heal your heart. Either get a divorce (which i don't condone but life is about being happy and if your not happy why stay?) or both of you should seek help on how to repair the love. Most times people find out it's simple things that help make marraiges better!
    Mommy2life

    Answer by Mommy2life at 8:25 PM on Sep. 23, 2008

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  • Nope!

    You took the vows, you made those promises/commitments.

    If you arent happy there are solutions other than breaking your promises.
    ShadowMonkey

    Answer by ShadowMonkey at 8:38 PM on Sep. 23, 2008

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  • Falling out of love is no reason to betray your husband. If people are experiencing a deficiency in their ability to love their partner, it is not clear how something so hateful as betraying him would restore it.

    If all you want to do is push him out of your life, then divorce him before starting a relationship with someone else.
    Sandra124

    Answer by Sandra124 at 8:44 PM on Sep. 23, 2008

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  • I do not believe it is every OK to cheat. If your in a loveless marriage and you feel like cheating than get out. I look at it as how woould I FEEL? I would be devastated even if my marriage SUCKED! Do unto others as they do unto you. Plus I believe in KARMA. What goes around comes around!
    shamillionaire

    Answer by shamillionaire at 8:55 PM on Sep. 23, 2008

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  • Just don't get caught!!
    BlueDolphins3

    Answer by BlueDolphins3 at 8:59 PM on Sep. 23, 2008

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  • you should now that question.. where is your common sense.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:03 PM on Sep. 23, 2008

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  • No, you shouldn't cheat. Be bigger then that. End the marriage, then move on.
    Rachell9503

    Answer by Rachell9503 at 9:06 PM on Sep. 23, 2008

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  • Work out your problems, try to make it better OR divorce. Do not cheat.
    JDmommyJD

    Answer by JDmommyJD at 9:22 PM on Sep. 23, 2008

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  • Heck NO! It's better to end what you have now and move on rather than try to develop a new relationship while you are still married. Say if you were to cheat, and developed genuine feelings for the co-cheater, how could you have a normal relationship when both of you know how yours began? It was based on lies and deception. And in the backs of your minds you both will always think, "Well, they cheated WITH me, so why wouldn't they cheat ON me someday?" End the current relationship. give yourself some time, and then move on! Best of Luck!
    daisyprincess72

    Answer by daisyprincess72 at 9:25 PM on Sep. 23, 2008

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  • HECK NO, IT IS NOT OK TO CHEAT!!!!!!!!


    Im in a loveless marriage so I understand what it fills like to be in one..... but it under no circumatances ok o cheat... ever.

    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:29 PM on Sep. 23, 2008

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