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Is it ever OK to cheat?

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Asked by Anonymous at 7:59 PM on Sep. 23, 2008 in Relationships

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  • No. And if it is truly loveless, get some help. Love can be restored. We think in America that you "fall in" and "fall out" of love, like it's some accident. It takes WORK. Go to www.marriagemax.com for some really good info on how to get love back.
    PamJM

    Answer by PamJM at 9:44 PM on Sep. 23, 2008

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  • No it's never ok to cheat get out of the relationship first. If your not in love with him then end the marriage like anyone else would then move on cheating looks like you don't have morals and I know you have to have to morals
    Jacqalyn

    Answer by Jacqalyn at 9:50 PM on Sep. 23, 2008

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  • about to find out. He sees more of his job then his family.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:05 PM on Sep. 23, 2008

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  • I don't think it's okay to cheat when you are in a marriage, loveless or otherwise. You made a promise to that person not to do that. I know it's difficult being with someone you don't love and it's so tempting to just go do it but that will only make you the bad person.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:05 PM on Sep. 23, 2008

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  • Oh geeez, this again!? No, it's NOT ok to cheat. If your marriage is that bad and you're unwilling to fix it, then leave. It's never good to be a cheater!
    ReneeK3

    Answer by ReneeK3 at 10:12 PM on Sep. 23, 2008

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  • in my loveless marriage, the true love of my life visited. stuff happened. not saying we should've or that it's ok, but I understand. I do not condone cheating. it just creates drama and confusion.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:14 PM on Sep. 23, 2008

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  • no... if you are in a loveless marriage, get out of it.... DUH
    Momsince1106

    Answer by Momsince1106 at 10:18 PM on Sep. 23, 2008

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  • Why does everyone jump to get a divorce. I suggest trying every possible outlet to repair your marriage before decided that there is no hope. And cheating is never right, never justified and never fair to anyone involved.
    toriandgrace

    Answer by toriandgrace at 10:21 PM on Sep. 23, 2008

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  • No definately not! Leave that loveless relationship before even starting a new one.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:28 PM on Sep. 23, 2008

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  • Um, no? If your in a loveless marraige do the right thing and get a divorce and then find someone else. Cheating is never okay.
    ElijahsMommy58

    Answer by ElijahsMommy58 at 10:30 PM on Sep. 23, 2008

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